The occasion, as part of the whole wedding plan, begins months earlier with the bride or couple deciding to use the bagpipes in their ceremony and /or reception. Once contacted, my job begins with offering time in conversation or on the pipes with the engaged couple. On one such occasion, I offered to join the couple for a music ‘tasting’. Much like cake tasting, a sample of music that may be played is presented to the couple. I arrive tuned and warmed up, and present myself at the home, or venue chosen, and play several pieces. Most likely, I will have had a conversation as to what music the couple is looking for. Once, the couple asked me to play several hymns in order to choose the music for the bride to walk down the aisle. I played the tune with the couple listening. We then talked about playing two, the first as a prelude to the bride’s entrance, then the second for her to enter and walk to the alter. As the bride herself is a musician, she knew the tempo in her mind, which we agreed upon. The ‘tasting’ went very well. Then after playing a few more tunes, I paused to discuss with the couple only to hear from two or three doors down a pair of dogs crooning in harmony in response to my playing. It made us all laugh.
Before the wedding I like to preview the venue in person and play the music through (at least in my head) as I march down the (imaginary) aisle. I’ll do this, if possible, a week to ten days before the ceremony. I also confirm with the bride in that time period and the wedding coordinator that everything is set, and confirm the detailed times for rehearsal and wedding. Once the rehearsal day arrives there should be no surprises. Yet a piper does have to remain flexible and open to any last minute additions or changes. After all, it’s not my big day, but the bride’s and groom’s big day. If any changes are requested, I make those changes happen, confirming with the bride as the final arbiter of changes.
The rehearsal will be a time of waiting for the piper to do my part for the bridal party. I make it a point to show up early, tuned up and ready to play. I may even play a few tunes for fun while we wait for someone to arrive, or some aspect to be handled. It keeps people entertained and my pipes warmed up. I expect to be there are a couple hours and will probably be asked to do the run through twice. I’m not there to joke around or goof off, but I’m there to act professionally and be at the beck and call (musically) for the bride, groom and/or wedding coordinator.
On the day of the wedding, I plan on arriving early, dressed and tuned, prior to guests arriving. While the caterers are setting up, I’ll check in with the wedding coordinator, say hi to the groom and his men and officiating pastor, and do a final run through in my head. This is where the time in preparation will pay off. The tunes are ready. I’ll do a final tuning sequence in a practice room, if possible, and then wait for the ceremony to begin. Here’s where the experience in bagpiping can pay off. The waiting and then the final OK to play can make one nervous, and may even cause over blowing and take oneself off one’s game. Don’t fall into this trap. The key is being prepared mentally and having confidence in your instrument and playing. Enjoy yourself as the piping commences and play with a surety that will elevate the event from a performance to the experience of a lifetime for the bridal party and all in attendance. Your confidence will shine through. I make myself available for photos with the bridal party and whoever the bride wishes me to be photographed with.
Once the ceremony or reception duties are completed, I make sure to congratulate and thank the bride and groom, wedding coordinator, etc. for the privilege of being part of the day before saying my goodbyes. I will also follow-up a performance with a thank you note to the bride and groom.
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