On piping for my daughter’s wedding

When my daughter became engaged, a whole world of new discussions, details, plans and possibilities opened up. Early on she asked about having pipers play a processional as I walked her down the aisle. I was extremely delighted that she wanted bagpipes, even knowing that I would not be able to play. No disappointment there as I am the Father of the Bride. And, as it happened, our band whole heartedly wanted to play. I was equally delighted when our band’s leadership approved playing at the wedding! Our family is indeed honored by the generosity of time and music.  

The wedding plans moved along in quick order. The couple found a beautiful venue in Santa Cruz, CA., called Hollins House at Pasatiempo (http://www.pasatiempo.com/hollins-house).  A gorgeous venue overlooking the Pasatiempo Golf Links which in turn overlooks Santa Cruz and the Monterey Bay beyond. On my first visit with my wife and daughter, the outdoor location for the end of October wedding was scoped out. We marched the path of the processional as I hummed the beloved tune: Highland Cathedral. We decided that day a solo piper would play the tune straight through one time, marching up the aisle the across to the band. As the drums and pipes began playing a second time through, we would emerge from behind the house and walk up the aisle.  We could picture it all in our minds.

The band opened the ‘Boyden Wedding’ event on our automated band calendaring system (https://teamsnap.com) and quickly had a pipe band confirmed to play. Understanding that to play for an event as a pipe band never involved playing one tune, it was unique for our gang to be asked to prep, dress, practice, tune and perform one tune. One of our senior pipers, Paul Llewellyn, led the band and played the solo, with the band performing flawlessly in strike in and cutoff.

At the reception, a number of friends all asked why the band only played one tune. We all would have love them playing several more, but the bride and groom called the shots for the wedding and reception. Beth had a vision, and my job was to see that vision come alive. The band was invited to stay for the reception’s cocktail hour and pictures. Almost everyone stayed the entire time. It was a blast having them present for an incredibly special time in our family history.

I cannot express adequately just how grateful our family is to the Stewart Tartans for their generous gift of friendship by performing. They are a marvelous group of musicians and friends.