When my daughter became engaged, a whole world of new discussions,
details, plans and possibilities opened up. Early on she asked about having
pipers play a processional as I walked her down the aisle. I was extremely
delighted that she wanted bagpipes, even knowing that I would not be able to
play. No disappointment there as I am the Father of the Bride. And, as it
happened, our band whole heartedly wanted to play. I was equally delighted when
our band’s leadership approved playing at the wedding! Our family is indeed
honored by the generosity of time and music.
The wedding plans moved along in quick order. The couple
found a beautiful venue in Santa Cruz, CA., called Hollins House at Pasatiempo (
http://www.pasatiempo.com/hollins-house).
A gorgeous venue overlooking the
Pasatiempo Golf Links which in turn overlooks Santa Cruz and the Monterey Bay
beyond. On my first visit with my wife and daughter, the outdoor location for
the end of October wedding was scoped out. We marched the path of the processional
as I hummed the beloved tune: Highland Cathedral. We decided that day a solo
piper would play the tune straight through one time, marching up the aisle the
across to the band. As the drums and pipes began playing a second time through,
we would emerge from behind the house and walk up the aisle. We could picture it all in our minds.
The band opened the ‘Boyden Wedding’ event on our
automated band calendaring system (https://teamsnap.com) and quickly had a pipe
band confirmed to play. Understanding that to play for an event as a pipe band
never involved playing one tune, it was unique for our gang to be asked to
prep, dress, practice, tune and perform one tune. One of our senior pipers,
Paul Llewellyn, led the band and played the solo, with the band performing
flawlessly in strike in and cutoff.
At the reception, a number of friends all asked why the
band only played one tune. We all would have love them playing several more,
but the bride and groom called the shots for the wedding and reception. Beth
had a vision, and my job was to see that vision come alive. The band was
invited to stay for the reception’s cocktail hour and pictures. Almost everyone
stayed the entire time. It was a blast having them present for an incredibly
special time in our family history.
I cannot express adequately just how grateful our family
is to the Stewart Tartans for their generous gift of friendship by performing.
They are a marvelous group of musicians and friends.